Tuesday, 7 April 2009

More....

Abstract thoughts.
Loves reality and abstract.
Intelligent and clever.
Changing personality. 
Attractive.
Sexy.
Temperamental.
Quiet, shy and humble.
Honest and loyal.
Determined to reach goals.
Loves freedom.
Rebellious when restricted.
Loves aggressiveness.
Too sensitive and easily hurt.
Gets angry really easily but does not show it.
Dislike unnecessary things.
Loves making friends but rarely shows it.
Daring and stubborn.
Ambitious.
Realizing dreams and hopes.
Sharp.
Loves entertainment and leisure.
Romantic on the inside not outside.
Superstitious and ludicrous.
Spendthrift.
Tries to learn to show emotions.

TRUE OR FALSE...HMMMM!!

The Ultimate Personality Quiz: PerplexedMay...hmmm

YOU KNOW HOW THERE ARE A BUNCH OF PERSONALITY TESTS ON THE INTERNET...I WONDER HOW TRUE THEY ARE...HMMMMMMM


As a Friend:
Always ready with a listening ear or a heartfelt compliment, you know the meaning of true friendship and loyalty, and your mates know it. Although you’re hesitant till you know people well, you’re affectionate, open and warm with people you trust. You have a close circle of core friends, ‘n’ you'll do anything for 'em. Caring, thoughtful and good-hearted, people know they can count on you to be around when they need you, and you take pride in being a good friend. A genuine and sincere person, you are a giving, trustworthy and steady pal.

At School:
You’re well-read and curious about the world, your grades reflect your intelligence. Easily intrigued, you’re constantly reading, listening, watching and finding new ways to challenge your mind. You do well at whatever you put your mind to, and teachers say you’re a diligent and conscientious student. Subjects like history and geography probably have the most appeal to your analytical mind.

In Love:
Natural and unpretentious, you’re friendly but not intentionally flirty. Videos and snacks on the couch with a nice bloke is your ideal date, and most guys are over the moon to find a gal they can hang out with and just be themselves. Don’t settle for less than you deserve though, hon. Your sweet and undemanding manner can sometimes makes you vulnerable to being taken for granted, so make sure you don’t put up with any mind games. Once you find the right guy, you’ll be your man’s best mate as much as his girlf, and your loving nature will make him want to hang on tight and treat you right.

Your Career:
You're an ambitious and reliable lass, who likes to gather all the facts before coming to an informed decision. Observant, focused and dedicated, you can tell the difference between fact and opinion easily. You’d make a fantastic journalist, doctor or nutritionist.

Deep Down:
Living a stable life and helping other people are your most important goals. You set high standards for yourself and other people, which means that you sometimes get down on yourself and are easily hurt and offended. You’re gentle, responsible and organised, but you can be cautious or even a little afraid of changes and new experiences. Sometimes this makes you feel too 'normal', and you wish there was a little more drama in your life. Try not to turn down new experiences out of habit; trying new things can help you feel stronger and more confident, and you might discover a great new friend or hobby.

Thursday, 2 April 2009

.....Random....


How typical...I woke up early this morning for my driving lesson and stayed awake after. and what happens, I end up falling asleep after dinner for...i think it was about an hour...and Now I'm awake!!!

This is so annoying....Found something on facebook today!! I can't say I totally agree, but here goes:

Lets start by defining the word itself.WIFEY: "A wifey is a girl that has the potential to be a man's wife. This girl is a steady girl friend and is loved, she is kind, doesn't cheat, is trusted, and would make a good wife."

Wifey I hear you all you women say "Yeh that sounds like me"... Debatable!

As of late I have heard a lot of guys talking and saying there are not many wifeys about anymore, I echo their thoughts, as 10% of women have the wifey gene in there DNA... 90% carry the Hoe gene!Well said friend...

You so called independent women take it too far, and will end up lesbian, lol! Even Beyonce has a man and plays wifey, she made the term. Be independent ladies but dont be on a hype about it! Real Talk!Anyway what you have been waiting for, the Handbook...

Top 10 WIFEY RULES & REGULATIONS========================

1. FOOD... Never stop cooking... If you do, dont get mad when he is at a next girls house getting a hot meal, which you have failed to provide... If your not going to cook, let him know 5 hours in advance so you both can make arrangements for him to get in the kitchen, go out and eat or get a take away. Dont pull a surprise when he gets back from a long day at work and say "oh babe there's no dinner, sorry"!

2. NEVER think its acceptable to lose the plot... face wise, body wise, attitude wise! Familiarity breeds contempt!

3. OTHER DUDES 1... Lock them off!

4. OTHER DUDES 2... No moist/wet phones calls fullstop, and no standard phones calls after 9pm prime time.

5. OTHER DUDES 3... No bullshit like "I dont get on with girls"! AIR!

6. ETIQUETTE... Refrain from using road talk that you hear man dem using, i.e. "Fam", "Cuz", "Blud", "You get me tho", etc, its not cute! Be a lady!

7. FASHION... If he says it looks dodge, DONT wear it... "it looks dodge"... "Mr. Fake Baider" might think it looks live, but "Mr. Right" doesn't...

8. DRESS... Look nice for him, not raves... If you want to dress nice for raves, and look a mess for him, what does that say about you?

9. STOP RAVIN' .. party animals dont look like wifey's..(not saying there aren't any "wifey's" in raves, it just "LOOKS" that way). And if you did meet your wifey in a rave, WHY is she going back again?? She a wifey now, what you want a new guy, not enough swagger for you with the one you have?? Black girls to find other extra curriculum activities, like going to the library, theatre, play, go bowling, take a Spa day or suttin, other than sweating out their weaves to Tony Matterhorn!I'll let you in on a little "home-truths" here... "serious" guys don't like super RAVER chicks... That ones for free! If he does, then he probably raves more than you do, and has about 4 wifeys and your number 5!I'm not saying don't enjoy your life... I'm sayin be more creative, find some girly activities to do...

10. FAMILY... If you have not met his family after 12 months... It means one of 2 things..
.A. HE HAS NO FAMILY!
B. YOU NEED TO KEEP IT MOVIN!


Tuesday, 31 March 2009

...With Age...

This might be very typical, but I'll do it anyway....

I'm trying to figure out certain things, as I get through life...

"You think men have problems now? Wait till you get older and they get even more confusing" - My adorable Sister-in-law.

I'm 19 and through my very short life, I've experienced certain things - maybe some that I should never have even been through.

I'm not a man-hater in any way. How can I- I think some feminist theologians take their ridiculous theory to far!!

Sex is always an issue in this life. One can never be too sure about what to do - Follow the Bible or not!! There is the argument that the Bible is outdated and so doesn't necessarily apply today, but how do we know the authenticity of it- it's not like we can ask God. Some even argue that Man wrote the Bible - or according to Christians Man wrote the Bible with the inspiration of GOD. Atheists however ignore the inspiration part!

When I was younger – 12-13…Sex was never an issue. In fact, it was one of those things that you didn’t even think about.

Then I moved to England and 9 year olds are sexually active and then one wonders where all that principle went!

All in all, one can successfully avoid sex until when you’re over 18…Well, this was how it was in my case.

At the age of 18, when you refused to have sex, you would get the occasional look what meant “what’s her problem?”

I never actually got that- I didn’t understand why guys assumed that sex was a necessity in a relationship. Can’t we just cuddle and make-out???

Just because, some people start cuddling at a young age doesn’t make it less effective.

“I bet you, before you get married, you would have had sex with a few people, some of which you would have been dating!!”

A guy that I like but refused to have sex with once told me this. Maybe, maybe not, but I seriously doubt that this will be the case!!

The way I see it , as long as you have control over your relationship, you can pretty much make all the decisions without even the guy realise. I’m an advocate of equality, but not when it puts me in a vulnerable situation…Yes, we can be equal partners in a relationship, but when it come to Sex….Well, it’s my way or the HIGHWAY lover!!!

...One of many Drama...Friendship!!


I am actually one of the most stubborn individual that I know...shouldn't really be admitting t this, but it's the truth!!

I have this friend...well, bestfriend. We've been friends since Year 10 and I haven't spoken to her in about 3 weeks!!

This things do generally happen, but when you go from talking on the phone everyday almost every hour to no speaking at all then it becomes an issue.

Most people believe we should just patch things up, but in my defence I need a break!! There is this common believe that friendship is a relationship....just like every other type of relationship. Just because you don't make out and holds hands - we actually do hold hands...lol - doesn't make it any less of a relationship!!

Let's call my bf Jane...Jane and I have been friends for a long time. As expected, we have influenced each other in many ways. I want to believe that I have had a positive influence on Jane. The only problem is that I think this "lovely" relationship has been an 80-20 relationship, with me obviously putting in most of the effort! - You might think that I'm just ranting on and maybe I'm the one with the problem, but this is the truth - what's the point of lying on my blog???- It would be pointless!!

Jane has confessed to the fact that she finds it hard to be around my parents, but yet I can stay around her own parents without any problems. She can't even chill with my own brothers, whom other friends finds interesting and can have long conversations with. Fair point- she's not friends with my family, but I'm sorry, that's one of the many criteria for friendship....

Let me illustrate some of the issues:

1) Jane is out with other friends and they say something mean about May. She defends May, but....That "But" is the problem!! You can't defend a friend half-hearteredely. It would be pointless.

If May was in this situation, she would fully defend Jane, regardless of whether Jane was aware or not!

2) May is likes a boy, but it doesn't really work out and to be honest, May isn't too bothered. After a while, this idiotic boy (lol) takes a liking to Jane. Although, Jane does nothing about his approach, she still tries to rub it in May's face

"May, I think Idiot likes me...we get along and stuff, but I'm not going to do anything!! You, after all he's done to do...blah blah blah"

That is very unnecessary!!!

May in that situation and Yes, she has been in that situation would completely dismiss Idiot as soon as she sees the signs and would not even mention it to Jane.

A friend once told me that I'm not like everyone else...Just because I react one way, doesn’t mean that everyone else thinks like that....APPARENLTY!!

I was also told to tell this friend about this problems, but I know what the outcome would be- it would probably be one defence to the next and to be really honest....I can't be bothered!!

As they say "What will be will be"


Virgin Blogger

This is just very random, but obviously something I would do as I am sometimes described as weird. This was very offensive at first, but I eventually grew to accept it and it's actually not a bad thing..well, at least not in my case!!

If It was I would be friendless..right??? Or maybe not!

I might suffer from a very mild case of insomnia, because for some really weird reason, I just can't sleep. Actually, maybe I'm just being over dramatic...I can sleep, but only in the day time. Most normal people are at sleep at night and so I can't really talk to anyone!

So, what best thing to do than blog.....