This might be very typical, but I'll do it anyway....
I'm trying to figure out certain things, as I get through life...
"You think men have problems now? Wait till you get older and they get even more confusing" - My adorable Sister-in-law.
I'm 19 and through my very short life, I've experienced certain things - maybe some that I should never have even been through.
I'm not a man-hater in any way. How can I- I think some feminist theologians take their ridiculous theory to far!!
Sex is always an issue in this life. One can never be too sure about what to do - Follow the Bible or not!! There is the argument that the Bible is outdated and so doesn't necessarily apply today, but how do we know the authenticity of it- it's not like we can ask God. Some even argue that Man wrote the Bible - or according to Christians Man wrote the Bible with the inspiration of GOD. Atheists however ignore the inspiration part!
When I was younger – 12-13…Sex was never an issue. In fact, it was one of those things that you didn’t even think about.
Then I moved to England and 9 year olds are sexually active and then one wonders where all that principle went!
All in all, one can successfully avoid sex until when you’re over 18…Well, this was how it was in my case.
At the age of 18, when you refused to have sex, you would get the occasional look what meant “what’s her problem?”
I never actually got that- I didn’t understand why guys assumed that sex was a necessity in a relationship. Can’t we just cuddle and make-out???
Just because, some people start cuddling at a young age doesn’t make it less effective.
“I bet you, before you get married, you would have had sex with a few people, some of which you would have been dating!!”
A guy that I like but refused to have sex with once told me this. Maybe, maybe not, but I seriously doubt that this will be the case!!
The way I see it , as long as you have control over your relationship, you can pretty much make all the decisions without even the guy realise. I’m an advocate of equality, but not when it puts me in a vulnerable situation…Yes, we can be equal partners in a relationship, but when it come to Sex….Well, it’s my way or the HIGHWAY lover!!!