...With Age...

This might be very typical, but I'll do it anyway....

I'm trying to figure out certain things, as I get through life...

"You think men have problems now? Wait till you get older and they get even more confusing" - My adorable Sister-in-law.

I'm 19 and through my very short life, I've experienced certain things - maybe some that I should never have even been through.

I'm not a man-hater in any way. How can I- I think some feminist theologians take their ridiculous theory to far!!

Sex is always an issue in this life. One can never be too sure about what to do - Follow the Bible or not!! There is the argument that the Bible is outdated and so doesn't necessarily apply today, but how do we know the authenticity of it- it's not like we can ask God. Some even argue that Man wrote the Bible - or according to Christians Man wrote the Bible with the inspiration of GOD. Atheists however ignore the inspiration part!

When I was younger – 12-13…Sex was never an issue. In fact, it was one of those things that you didn’t even think about.

Then I moved to England and 9 year olds are sexually active and then one wonders where all that principle went!

All in all, one can successfully avoid sex until when you’re over 18…Well, this was how it was in my case.

At the age of 18, when you refused to have sex, you would get the occasional look what meant “what’s her problem?”

I never actually got that- I didn’t understand why guys assumed that sex was a necessity in a relationship. Can’t we just cuddle and make-out???

Just because, some people start cuddling at a young age doesn’t make it less effective.

“I bet you, before you get married, you would have had sex with a few people, some of which you would have been dating!!”

A guy that I like but refused to have sex with once told me this. Maybe, maybe not, but I seriously doubt that this will be the case!!

The way I see it , as long as you have control over your relationship, you can pretty much make all the decisions without even the guy realise. I’m an advocate of equality, but not when it puts me in a vulnerable situation…Yes, we can be equal partners in a relationship, but when it come to Sex….Well, it’s my way or the HIGHWAY lover!!!

...One of many Drama...Friendship!!

I am actually one of the most stubborn individual that I know...shouldn't really be admitting t this, but it's the truth!!

I have this friend...well, bestfriend. We've been friends since Year 10 and I haven't spoken to her in about 3 weeks!!

This things do generally happen, but when you go from talking on the phone everyday almost every hour to no speaking at all then it becomes an issue.

Most people believe we should just patch things up, but in my defence I need a break!! There is this common believe that friendship is a relationship....just like every other type of relationship. Just because you don't make out and holds hands - we actually do hold hands...lol - doesn't make it any less of a relationship!!

Let's call my bf Jane...Jane and I have been friends for a long time. As expected, we have influenced each other in many ways. I want to believe that I have had a positive influence on Jane. The only problem is that I think this "lovely" relationship has been an 80-20 relationship, with me obviously putting in most of the effort! - You might think that I'm just ranting on and maybe I'm the one with the problem, but this is the truth - what's the point of lying on my blog???- It would be pointless!!

Jane has confessed to the fact that she finds it hard to be around my parents, but yet I can stay around her own parents without any problems. She can't even chill with my own brothers, whom other friends finds interesting and can have long conversations with. Fair point- she's not friends with my family, but I'm sorry, that's one of the many criteria for friendship....

Let me illustrate some of the issues:

1) Jane is out with other friends and they say something mean about May. She defends May, but....That "But" is the problem!! You can't defend a friend half-hearteredely. It would be pointless.

If May was in this situation, she would fully defend Jane, regardless of whether Jane was aware or not!

2) May is likes a boy, but it doesn't really work out and to be honest, May isn't too bothered. After a while, this idiotic boy (lol) takes a liking to Jane. Although, Jane does nothing about his approach, she still tries to rub it in May's face

"May, I think Idiot likes me...we get along and stuff, but I'm not going to do anything!! You, after all he's done to do...blah blah blah"

That is very unnecessary!!!

May in that situation and Yes, she has been in that situation would completely dismiss Idiot as soon as she sees the signs and would not even mention it to Jane.

A friend once told me that I'm not like everyone else...Just because I react one way, doesn’t mean that everyone else thinks like that....APPARENLTY!!

I was also told to tell this friend about this problems, but I know what the outcome would be- it would probably be one defence to the next and to be really honest....I can't be bothered!!

As they say "What will be will be"

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This is just very random, but obviously something I would do as I am sometimes described as weird. This was very offensive at first, but I eventually grew to accept it and it's actually not a bad thing..well, at least not in my case!!

If It was I would be friendless..right??? Or maybe not!

I might suffer from a very mild case of insomnia, because for some really weird reason, I just can't sleep. Actually, maybe I'm just being over dramatic...I can sleep, but only in the day time. Most normal people are at sleep at night and so I can't really talk to anyone!

So, what best thing to do than blog.....